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Sometimes you can only wish. Wish for things that are never there. Hope for things you will never get.

But sometimes..

Believing will be alot better than wishing.

I wish.. Wish upon the Wishing Tree.

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Sagittarian . Cantonese . dreamer . emotional . Singapore . hugs . dolls . anti-social . soft-hearted . read . sleep . coffee . gelato . french . blur queen . cinderella . games . cute stuff . japanese food . anything white .

Maybe one day

i'll be back to tell you
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Observations

Wednesday, November 16, 2005 10:05 PM

When I spent hours chatting with this same friend. You know, having a lot of guy friends and girl friends helped me see how guys and girls are different. I have talked with mostly all of them about the most trivial things and the more serious of conversations. I realized that

1. When girls have problems, they tend to dramatize (okay, I refuse to use the word exaggerate because I'm a girl too and I'm guilty of that) a lot about their situation. Guys, on the otherhand, go straight to the point. Meaning, they'll say "this is what's wrong...". they acknowledge the problem and deal with it so fast. It's not that they dont care. They just dont dramatize too much or whine about things that can no longer be changed! Girls tend to wallow in self-pity for a LONG period of time before finally accepting the situation.

2. Girls are good at voicing out or expressing what they feel when they are in a rut. Guys, on the otherhand, hesitate to tell that they have problems because they feel like it's not too "macho" to show their weak side and they feel like they can work things out by themselves.

3. When girls give out advice, they usually go round and round and not go straight to the point. When you ask a guy for advice, WHAM! they'll hit you (figuratively, of coz) with reality on the face. This is the situation. Deal with it. This is what you do. They give solutions right away. Girls do give sound advice and solutions but sometimes, well, we tend to rant and rant and end up with... "it's up to you lor."

4. When you ask girls what they think, they usually answer with "It really depends on you, what do you want?". When you ask guys what they think, they'll usually be frank about it.

5. We over analyze too often when sometimes there's nothing more beneath the surface. What you see is what you get.

I'll add to the list but so far, these are my observations. So that makes me a lucky girl to have plenty of guy friends and girl friends. I get to have the best of both worlds. HAHA.. don't get me wrong, of coz, I love my girl friends. They are the best! But we have to admit, girls, sometimes we are drama queens. I don't know, maybe it's our nature to be fragile and emotional all the time. We tend to over analyze a lot.

I love all my friends. You are always there for me.

Thank you..